Parenting a child as a single father while also being the sole breadwinner can be one of the most challenging roles in our society, but at the same time, it’s also one of the most rewarding ones. Will Smith showed us as much in The Pursuit of Happyness, where he pulls his son out of homelessness while being an awesome dad at the end of the day.
But reality can be a bit harsher than the movies. Even when a lot of research presents evidence of successful lives that kids with single-fathers lead, the experience can be daunting for some newly single fathers.
That’s why our Montessori preschool experts have put together a guide that should help you if you’re struggling to be a better parent for your child.
1. Ask For Support
All the movies with single fathers make it look like rainbows and sunshine, but we realize how difficult it can be to tread the world all alone with the responsibility of a child on your shoulders.
That’s why we suggest that you should have a support system as you move along. You can either join single-parent support groups or look for online support from other fathers in a similar role. Relating to others’ experiences helps a lot, and it also validates your own.
Don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for help.
2. Show Unconditional Love And Support
We realize that most fathers are not overly expressive of their emotions. But you need to understand that there’s no greater comfort for your child than when you hug them, which makes them feel safe and secure.
A sense of security is important for your child. So it’s not something that you should overlook. Even though it may not come naturally to you, you need to try harder for your child’s mental well-being.
3. Look For A Flexible Work Schedule
Offering financial support to your child is of utmost importance. But you need to realize that as a single parent, you are all your child has and must be there for them.
Sit down with your boss and have an open conversation about your situation. Inform them about what you can bring to the table and how you’ll need their help. After the pandemic, work from home has become a norm for many companies, so see if you can avail of that opportunity as well.
Align your vacation days with the school’s vacations so you can spend more quality time with your child.
Join Centerra Ranch Parent Teacher Society In Katy, TX!
Living your life as a single father doesn’t have to be a struggle. Now you can join Centerra Ranch Parent Teacher Society (CPTS), so you’re directly involved in your child’s life.
We also offer daycare and after-school care to parents and single fathers struggling to meet other commitments.
Contact us to learn more about our programs and other details or get involved in CPTS.
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